Sunday, January 6, 2013


芝欣,
祝你21岁生日快乐。
HAPPY BIRTHDAY。 
^.^

Friday, January 4, 2013

爱你一生一世

2013.1.4
这一天, 比全球同庆的情人节更特别,只因这一天专属认识华语的每一位,认识爱之语言的你与我。

201314,谐音。。。爱你一生一世。

相爱的人,用一生为对方许下的这承诺。一起坚守到最后的,就拥有了童话故事的美丽结句:永远幸福地在一起。

然而有些人,在半途就选择退出承诺,只剩下受伤的两颗心,在不断地用眼泪问着"为什么?"。

到底什么才是爱呢? TVB 连续剧《On Call 36》,相信有看这部剧的人,都对男主角向患上严重疾病的女主角求婚的那段誓词,有深刻的印象:

“我张一健愿以你范子妤为我合法妻子,无论富贵贫穷 快乐悲伤 健康疾病都愿意一生一世爱你 守护你 终生不渝。你还犹豫什么?担心我会后悔?担心我是一时冲动?担心我要一辈子照顾你? 

   結婚的誓詞,如果只是循例唸出來是沒有意義的,必須實踐出來。年青时又靓又健康当然爱,但系随住对方年纪大又老又皱,愈来愈多病痛,甚至睇住对方老死,难度不爱了吗?既然将来不会离弃对方,现在也应该一样,如果因为对方有病就不爱他,就不是真正的爱。因为我地保证唔到自己一直都系健健康康 所以虽然结婚誓词上毋话要白头皆老,但就一定要无论贫穷疾病都要系埋一齐.没人知道生命的长短,即使我们是医生,也不能保证自己长命百岁,所以结婚誓词没说要保证白头偕老,却要保证无论健康疾病都要在一起。”


一生一世没有保证白头偕老,却承诺无论贫穷疾病都要在一起。
圣经哥林多前书13章4-8节, 给世人记载了不跨越世纪,对爱的定义:

爱是恒久忍耐,又有恩慈。爱是不嫉妒,爱是不自夸,不张狂,不做害羞的事,不求自己的益处,不轻易发怒,不计算人的恶,不喜欢不义,只喜欢真理;凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望,凡事忍耐。爱是永不止息。

爱一个人,不一定等于一生一世。正如张一健说,若这承诺只是照规矩说出来是没有意义,必须实践出来。

如果你深深爱上一个人,甚至已经愿意付上一辈子,无怨无悔地用真心为他遵守并实践爱定义,恭喜你,你真的爱他一生一世了。

201314。。。爱你一生一世。。。








Wednesday, January 2, 2013

原点

很努力地走了很久很远
结果发现自己回到了原点
只是这次会用不同的心情
再次走这一条路。

Saturday, December 29, 2012

我其中一本2012日记簿

2011年年低,偶然拿到了一本2012年的记录日程的日记簿。书面没有特别,只是普普通通的。可里面印刷的格式倒是我的style.

还没2012,我就已经在它上面预先记录好新一年的一些活动,充满期待。开始时也没特别在意作记录,以为自己新奇而已,记两记就会没了回事,可能到时连簿子都不懂丢哪了。

2012 ,我还在写,*like。

在我生日当天,在那一页写了给自己的祝福语,更放心丝去decorate 了一下。对这本日记越来越有好感了,常常翻开它做记录,也会把心情写下去,什么鬼活动的笔记,心得,和分享都会记。每晚睡前写这日记簿,好像变成了跟它说晚安的一种习惯。人人都说写日记是良好习惯,不错不错。

朋友知道我竟然会写日记,眼都大了。别说他们啦,我看自己年头写到年中还这么坚持,自己也吓到咯。

看我在上面所描述的,都会知道这本日记簿在我生活里很重要,东西记不记得都要靠它了,出门没带的话就等于部分失忆。

但世事往往很“可爱”,越是在乎的就会失去,越是要找的就寻觅无门。某天它竟然玩失踪,我找到半死都找不到。大半年里习惯依赖日记簿了,这下就靠自己死撑咯,用自己的脑去记回日程,满痛苦的,脑细胞也死了些。

后来有找回啦,也恢复用它来记录的习惯,可是就没以前那么频密了。可能大件事才写,绿豆芝麻就自己用脑记。

眨眼来到2012 年底了,已经很少很少去记了。不过上星期,突然拿来了包书纸把日记簿包好好。你肯定认为我此举动少根茎,可这是我对日记簿一种爱和尊重的表示。(本人很爱把书本包美美哦)。

不知为何,包好了的那天后,就没有再写日记簿了。或许潜意识知道要现在过去了和即将踏入新一年,再写今年,也没什么意思了,只好接受现实啦,哈哈。

过期的日记簿就得在新一年的生活里消失,帮它包美美,可说是给它的一场国葬吧。毕竟为主人的喜怒哀乐效劳了将近一年,曾经那么珍贵的东西,怎么可以随便丢掉呢,就算日记簿点头我也不肯啊。

再见日记簿,再见2012。

哈咯!!! 2013 !!! :)

Sunday, December 23, 2012

”我为和平而战争“

在同一个队伍里,
有人因私念而纷争结党。
口里常说是为和谐奋斗,
但他们从未想过要用什么对策去和解。
如果你是斗争中赢的那派,
请不必太自豪地高呼胜利。
因为一线之差,
你只不过是一个挑起干戈、厌恶玉帛的冠军得主。
冠冕上写着: “我为和平而战争” 。
。。。

Saturday, December 22, 2012

Who Do You Say He Is?

Here I am back in Ipoh. Wanna celebrate Christmas with my family.
I went for my church annual Christmas concert. Theme  "Who Do You Say He Is?"

On the way to church, my mom told me that there is one song that she not dare to put in all feeling while singing it. If she do so, she will start to tear and hardly can sing out any more.

The name of the song : Power Of The Cross.
One sentence of the lyric that touch me is..."My name is written in His wound"...
The "His" is refering to Jesus. He suffered for mankind so that my name can stand forgiveness infront of the cross.
In our daily life, we often searching for something or someone who is true and give almost all of his/her to you. Can be our friends, family, or partner.We do our best to love them as much as they love us. We dont want to disappoint them and if we did we feel sad because we have broke their heart. 
However, when come to Christ, He has given all he has and he is for us.He loves us more than anything... Yet many people turn themselves from Him, not feeling sad or doubting are they disappointing Him, not loving Him as much as he loves us. It's time to reflect about this.
For my name's sake blood was shed from Christ. Lord, I dont deserve you. I dont deserve your blood, your pain, your sacrifice...and your love. But truly You did these for us, the unworthy man. How an amazing grace it is.

One more song which I like to share is a chinese song: 神的道路 ( The Path Of God )
Its lyric says: ...神造万物各按其时,耐心等待必要欢呼。( Lord made everything beautiful in its time. Wait patiently and you shall rejoice. )...
Man always want things to be settled as fast as possible, especially in this tension new era. We continuously looking ways to upgrade our performance using our own wisdom. We want to control everything in our hand according to our own will.
Not saying that it is wrong to work hard to make our life better and just wait things drop from the sky. We need to work hard, not using our own wisdom, but by the faith and the wisdom of God. If things does not end in the way you want after you have did all you can, just hand it to God in prayer. He made everything beautifu in its time. He knows what the does not suits you, what is best for you, and what is yours but just not the time yet. If you hand these to Him, trust Him and wait patiently. You will find peace and comfort by doing so. At the end, you shall rejoice over whatever result it is because what he planned is the best for you.

Wish you a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. God bless You.



Friday, December 14, 2012

当你发现自己什么都不是时,才恍然你没有资格去讨厌一个人。
给自己拿下所有高帽后,方能学习如何谦卑,如何打从心里欣赏一个人的好。